Profiles 1.
It is 3 children who receive assistance School bags distributed at Free Tutoring Project Guide for Children Underprivileged / Orphans in Leupung.
The three children are orphans and siblings of 4 brothers, his mother is currently working to trade around selling accessories girls in the form of a hairpin, hair band and veil, oldest brother was sitting in class 2 high school, the young brother who looked at photo already sitting in class 1 SMP while her sister 3rd grade and 1st grade.
By selling accessories as mentioned above, his mother is very difficult to finance to 4 of his children, but his children smart thanks to a scholarship and their education is very helpful (they did not participate in the Free Free Tutoring project as it was already able to read and too clever in education in general).
Their chicken that had died a few years ago, a wealthy and arrogant businessman, and then exposed to the disease CANCER Blood (Leukemia) and was treated everywhere up overseas and had to do dialysis several times, but God says another illness does not heal until death call. Efforts treatment is made all their possessions drained, so that when death call he did not leave anything other than the house owned by, and for pride now his wife and children into public scorn surrounding environment.
But if mistakes parents should be borne by their children?
This has become our consideration, to include the children in the project Free Tutoring Internet, although only to receive assistance School Bags alone, because even though they receive the scholarship, we know for certain scholarships received mostly used for living expenses of their family.
Profile 2.
It is the child who appears in the photo with his mother who was holding a baby.
This boy claimed his school and his mother justify stupid, but in the tests we did on the first day and after 3 days following the guidance of learning, then the child is not a child looks stupid, it can be said intelligent, and after this initial study is the impact of the economic status single parents who bears as poor, so because he was naughty (and according to my children healthy all this naughty show intelligence) so he often did not get a positive response from the teacher.
His mother is a single parent, and the baby's is a child of the marriage recently, but unfortunately he left when I was pregnant so it increases again the burden to be borne as a woman who worked as laborers wash the family could afford.
Her marriage was impressed done in a hurry because it bears widow status and skin color plus black and poor makes it always underestimated and considered ugly (for black), this makes me sad, because why skin color discrimination is still very strong in Aceh which is actually a Muslims - in which Muslims should not distinguish the color of the skin - in which Muslims should not discriminate skin color - this is one tough challenge for me to remove that ugly black image that, if white is beautiful and effort I've done since before the tsunami but I have not managed to eliminate. So for fear no one wants to marry her again later that when there is asked he would immediately without looking at the background of the person.
This is the profile of children who participate in the free tutoring project and for those of you who want to help do not hesitate to contact me on 08116811823 or email tsyafrizal@gmail.com
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Thursday 7 May 2015
PROFILE OF CHILD BENEFICIARIES PROJECT "FREE LEARNING MENTORING"
Profiles 1.
It is 3 children who receive assistance School bags distributed at Free Tutoring Project Guide for Children Underprivileged / Orphans in Leupung.
The three children are orphans and siblings of 4 brothers, his mother is currently working to trade around selling accessories girls in the form of a hairpin, hair band and veil, oldest brother was sitting in class 2 high school, the young brother who looked at photo already sitting in class 1 SMP while her sister 3rd grade and 1st grade.
By selling accessories as mentioned above, his mother is very difficult to finance to 4 of his children, but his children smart thanks to a scholarship and their education is very helpful (they did not participate in the Free Free Tutoring project as it was already able to read and too clever in education in general).
Their chicken that had died a few years ago, a wealthy and arrogant businessman, and then exposed to the disease CANCER Blood (Leukemia) and was treated everywhere up overseas and had to do dialysis several times, but God says another illness does not heal until death call. Efforts treatment is made all their possessions drained, so that when death call he did not leave anything other than the house owned by, and for pride now his wife and children into public scorn surrounding environment.
But if mistakes parents should be borne by their children?
This has become our consideration, to include the children in the project Free Tutoring Internet, although only to receive assistance School Bags alone, because even though they receive the scholarship, we know for certain scholarships received mostly used for living expenses of their family.
Profile 2.
It is the child who appears in the photo with his mother who was holding a baby.
This boy claimed his school and his mother justify stupid, but in the tests we did on the first day and after 3 days following the guidance of learning, then the child is not a child looks stupid, it can be said intelligent, and after this initial study is the impact of the economic status single parents who bears as poor, so because he was naughty (and according to my children healthy all this naughty show intelligence) so he often did not get a positive response from the teacher.
His mother is a single parent, and the baby's is a child of the marriage recently, but unfortunately he left when I was pregnant so it increases again the burden to be borne as a woman who worked as laborers wash the family could afford.
Her marriage was impressed done in a hurry because it bears widow status and skin color plus black and poor makes it always underestimated and considered ugly (for black), this makes me sad, because why skin color discrimination is still very strong in Aceh which is actually a Muslims - in which Muslims should not distinguish the color of the skin - in which Muslims should not discriminate skin color - this is one tough challenge for me to remove that ugly black image that, if white is beautiful and effort I've done since before the tsunami but I have not managed to eliminate. So for fear no one wants to marry her again later that when there is asked he would immediately without looking at the background of the person.
This is the profile of children who participate in the free tutoring project and for those of you who want to help do not hesitate to contact me on 08116811823 or email tsyafrizal@gmail.com
Tuesday 5 May 2015
KNOW OF EMPATHY (SOCIAL SENSITIVITY) YOURSELF
Project Tutoring is free for children less poor and orphans in Leupung - Aceh campaigned by Teuku Syafrizal of the foundation attracted the attention of many people, but only one, and two men who were moved to help in concrete action, it becomes the question "what is it? Why people do not help ?, the answer could be anything, but behind all that there is one thing that is questionable on ourselves, ie how much empathy (social sensitivity) that we have? because that is what will move us to help others.
Therefore, on this occasion I tried to discuss this with the hope of empathy can be a mirror for us to measure the level of empathy that we have so that we can determine what we should do to solve it.
Social sensitivity or empathy for each person can be different. Empathy usually grow out of childhood, following the pattern of parenting. People who are reluctant to share will grow into an individualistic and self-centered. While they are often excluded from childhood to understand the difficulties of others, it will usually be more sensitive and easily moved to help others.
Empathy, is doing something to others, using the way of thinking of the other person, that other people is fun, which according to others it was true. So, what do you some good, could have actually even bother others.
According Ubaydillah (2005) empathy is our ability to explore the feelings of others without having to drown in it. Empathy is our ability to listen to other people's feelings without having to dissolve.
Empathy is our ability to respond to the wishes of others unspoken. This ability is seen as the key to raising the intensity and depth of our relationships with others (connecting with). In addition Empathy is one of the keys to success in inter-personal relations with trying to understand a problem from the viewpoint or feelings of the other person. Through empathy, individuals will be able to develop a deep understanding of a problem. Understanding others will encourage sharing between individuals. Empathy is the key to leadership development within the individual.
The world economy is increasingly global and competitive market filled with tight tolerance and empathy make social lower. That's why social conflicts often occur in the community. One effort to prevent the spread and minimize the negative impact of globalization is to socialize empathy early on. The family is the smallest social structure that is able to fortify the social pathology that continues implicated in particular the people of Indonesia.
Instinctively children are developing empathy from infancy. Originally owned by a very simple empathy, the empathetic emotions. For example at the age of 0-1 years, the baby can cry just because they hear other babies cry, then at the age of 1-2 years, the child realizes that his friend is not a distress distress that must be borne alone. Nevertheless, a sense of empathy in children should be sharpened. When the left empathy gradually be eroded, though not entirely disappear, depending on the environment that shape it.
Many positive aspects when we teach children empathy. They will not be aggressive and love to help others. Besides empathy relate to concern for others, no wonder the social connotations such as empathy always contribute, to give something to people who are less able. Empathy means putting yourself seems to be like everyone else. Have a sense of empathy is a human necessity, because that is where lies the value of one's humanity. Therefore, each parent is obliged to duplicate empathy to their children.
one of the factors that make it difficult to perform empathy for the situation that needs help is the level of stress they experienced. If the condition of stress is very high, then naturally people tend to focus more on himself. This is what often happens to people in big cities today.
This stress can be caused by socio-economic demands, work, family, congestion conditions are getting worse, and the city lifestyle that requires people to always fast-paced and 'up to date' with all the latest information -although sometimes not necessary. Unfortunately, not everyone has a way to manage stress well.
The first thing that needs to be done to foster empathy is to give real-life examples in everyday life of small things. For example if there are relatives who are sick or are in trouble, we should see him and give support. Not necessarily in material form, but simply provide ear and a warm hug to calm her.
Similarly, our attitude towards the environment. When there is a neighbor who suffered, do not hesitate to reach out. Including also if we look at the elderly or people with disabilities who want to cross the street. All the examples of parents' behavior will be ingrained in the child and make him a caring and light hand to others. Of course we also importantly provide a reason why we are doing so.
The second and equally important is to add the ability to manage stress well. When a person's heart angry, sad, or disappointed, it would be difficult to feel the feelings of others. Because at the time was shrouded emotions, we tend to see other people with negative feelings as well. To that end, forget all those emotions in a positive way as a hobby that we love, meditation, or just playing with our pets at home. With a calm and peaceful heart, we can tend to see other people and world peace as well.
Saturday 2 May 2015
CONGRATULATIONS AND THANK YOU FOR HELPING PROJECT "LEARNING MENTORING FREE" FOR POOR CHILDREN AND ORPHANS
The groundbreaking FREE LEARNING MENTORING PROJECT Poor children in Leupung - Aceh has been done by Mr. Zulkifli Said Gani as the first donor, and followed by the mother Diella Dachlan with assistance in the form of valuable information that can succeed this project.
The assistance you can provide not only in cash, but can also be in the form of school supplies, such as books and stationery, school uniforms, school bags, school shoes, even you can also help with suggestions and constructive criticism to the success of this project.
LIST OF CONTRIBUTION DONATIONS CAN BE GIVEN & DETAILS USE OF FUNDS FOR FREE Bimbel PROJECTS FOR CHILDREN LESS ABLE
1. Rp. 50.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 1 month + Learning Materials
2. Rp. 100.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 2 months + Learning Materials
3. Rp. 150.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 3 months + Learning Materials
4. Rp. 200.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 3 months + Learning + Material Supplies.
5. Rp. 250.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 3 months + Learning Materials + School Supplies + Drink Healthy Snack Healthy and nutritious
6. Rp. 400.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 3 months + Learning Materials + School Supplies + Drink Healthy Snack Healthy and nutritious + School Bags
7. Rp. 500.000, - 1 child can be free to follow Bimbel for 3 months + Learning Materials + School Supplies + Drink Healthy Snack Healthy and nutritious + + Clothes School Bags New Uniform
8. Rp. 1.000.000, - 2 children can be free to follow Bimbel for 3 months + Learning Materials + School Supplies + Drink Healthy Snack Healthy and nutritious + + Clothes School Bags New Uniform
9. And so on according to ability, the following contributions can be given in the form of School Bags, Clothes Uniform, School Supplies, School Shoes and services, energy and thoughts as well as DOA.
This breakdown is illustrated as an overview for donors to get an idea of where the funds they provide will be used, meaning that if given by a certain amount will contribute to how the beneficiaries, of course, in practice we shall not be able to fully implement it depends on contributions made by all donors (eg there are donors who choose to point 8 amounted to one person, who chose totaling 3 point 7, the rest pick points 1, 2 and 3), then the use of funds forced equalized and adjusted to the overall fund.
But one thing is certain, that we will be honest and transparent in receipts and expenditure of funds, and the main priority of Free Tutoring for underprivileged children with a study period of at least 3 months and a maximum of 6 months for this first phase.
Note:
Funds can be transferred to the following account: Foundation for Development of Young Generation Event
Bank BNI Branch Banda Aceh
No. Rek. 0257888297
AN. Syafrizal T
