Project Tutoring is free for children less poor and orphans in Leupung - Aceh campaigned by Teuku Syafrizal of the foundation attracted the attention of many people, but only one, and two men who were moved to help in concrete action, it becomes the question "what is it? Why people do not help ?, the answer could be anything, but behind all that there is one thing that is questionable on ourselves, ie how much empathy (social sensitivity) that we have? because that is what will move us to help others.
Therefore, on this occasion I tried to discuss this with the hope of empathy can be a mirror for us to measure the level of empathy that we have so that we can determine what we should do to solve it.
Social sensitivity or empathy for each person can be different. Empathy usually grow out of childhood, following the pattern of parenting. People who are reluctant to share will grow into an individualistic and self-centered. While they are often excluded from childhood to understand the difficulties of others, it will usually be more sensitive and easily moved to help others.
Empathy, is doing something to others, using the way of thinking of the other person, that other people is fun, which according to others it was true. So, what do you some good, could have actually even bother others.
According Ubaydillah (2005) empathy is our ability to explore the feelings of others without having to drown in it. Empathy is our ability to listen to other people's feelings without having to dissolve.
Empathy is our ability to respond to the wishes of others unspoken. This ability is seen as the key to raising the intensity and depth of our relationships with others (connecting with). In addition Empathy is one of the keys to success in inter-personal relations with trying to understand a problem from the viewpoint or feelings of the other person. Through empathy, individuals will be able to develop a deep understanding of a problem. Understanding others will encourage sharing between individuals. Empathy is the key to leadership development within the individual.
The world economy is increasingly global and competitive market filled with tight tolerance and empathy make social lower. That's why social conflicts often occur in the community. One effort to prevent the spread and minimize the negative impact of globalization is to socialize empathy early on. The family is the smallest social structure that is able to fortify the social pathology that continues implicated in particular the people of Indonesia.
Instinctively children are developing empathy from infancy. Originally owned by a very simple empathy, the empathetic emotions. For example at the age of 0-1 years, the baby can cry just because they hear other babies cry, then at the age of 1-2 years, the child realizes that his friend is not a distress distress that must be borne alone. Nevertheless, a sense of empathy in children should be sharpened. When the left empathy gradually be eroded, though not entirely disappear, depending on the environment that shape it.
Many positive aspects when we teach children empathy. They will not be aggressive and love to help others. Besides empathy relate to concern for others, no wonder the social connotations such as empathy always contribute, to give something to people who are less able. Empathy means putting yourself seems to be like everyone else. Have a sense of empathy is a human necessity, because that is where lies the value of one's humanity. Therefore, each parent is obliged to duplicate empathy to their children.
one of the factors that make it difficult to perform empathy for the situation that needs help is the level of stress they experienced. If the condition of stress is very high, then naturally people tend to focus more on himself. This is what often happens to people in big cities today.
This stress can be caused by socio-economic demands, work, family, congestion conditions are getting worse, and the city lifestyle that requires people to always fast-paced and 'up to date' with all the latest information -although sometimes not necessary. Unfortunately, not everyone has a way to manage stress well.
The first thing that needs to be done to foster empathy is to give real-life examples in everyday life of small things. For example if there are relatives who are sick or are in trouble, we should see him and give support. Not necessarily in material form, but simply provide ear and a warm hug to calm her.
Similarly, our attitude towards the environment. When there is a neighbor who suffered, do not hesitate to reach out. Including also if we look at the elderly or people with disabilities who want to cross the street. All the examples of parents' behavior will be ingrained in the child and make him a caring and light hand to others. Of course we also importantly provide a reason why we are doing so.
The second and equally important is to add the ability to manage stress well. When a person's heart angry, sad, or disappointed, it would be difficult to feel the feelings of others. Because at the time was shrouded emotions, we tend to see other people with negative feelings as well. To that end, forget all those emotions in a positive way as a hobby that we love, meditation, or just playing with our pets at home. With a calm and peaceful heart, we can tend to see other people and world peace as well.
Tuesday 5 May 2015
KNOW OF EMPATHY (SOCIAL SENSITIVITY) YOURSELF
Project Tutoring is free for children less poor and orphans in Leupung - Aceh campaigned by Teuku Syafrizal of the foundation attracted the attention of many people, but only one, and two men who were moved to help in concrete action, it becomes the question "what is it? Why people do not help ?, the answer could be anything, but behind all that there is one thing that is questionable on ourselves, ie how much empathy (social sensitivity) that we have? because that is what will move us to help others.
Therefore, on this occasion I tried to discuss this with the hope of empathy can be a mirror for us to measure the level of empathy that we have so that we can determine what we should do to solve it.
Social sensitivity or empathy for each person can be different. Empathy usually grow out of childhood, following the pattern of parenting. People who are reluctant to share will grow into an individualistic and self-centered. While they are often excluded from childhood to understand the difficulties of others, it will usually be more sensitive and easily moved to help others.
Empathy, is doing something to others, using the way of thinking of the other person, that other people is fun, which according to others it was true. So, what do you some good, could have actually even bother others.
According Ubaydillah (2005) empathy is our ability to explore the feelings of others without having to drown in it. Empathy is our ability to listen to other people's feelings without having to dissolve.
Empathy is our ability to respond to the wishes of others unspoken. This ability is seen as the key to raising the intensity and depth of our relationships with others (connecting with). In addition Empathy is one of the keys to success in inter-personal relations with trying to understand a problem from the viewpoint or feelings of the other person. Through empathy, individuals will be able to develop a deep understanding of a problem. Understanding others will encourage sharing between individuals. Empathy is the key to leadership development within the individual.
The world economy is increasingly global and competitive market filled with tight tolerance and empathy make social lower. That's why social conflicts often occur in the community. One effort to prevent the spread and minimize the negative impact of globalization is to socialize empathy early on. The family is the smallest social structure that is able to fortify the social pathology that continues implicated in particular the people of Indonesia.
Instinctively children are developing empathy from infancy. Originally owned by a very simple empathy, the empathetic emotions. For example at the age of 0-1 years, the baby can cry just because they hear other babies cry, then at the age of 1-2 years, the child realizes that his friend is not a distress distress that must be borne alone. Nevertheless, a sense of empathy in children should be sharpened. When the left empathy gradually be eroded, though not entirely disappear, depending on the environment that shape it.
Many positive aspects when we teach children empathy. They will not be aggressive and love to help others. Besides empathy relate to concern for others, no wonder the social connotations such as empathy always contribute, to give something to people who are less able. Empathy means putting yourself seems to be like everyone else. Have a sense of empathy is a human necessity, because that is where lies the value of one's humanity. Therefore, each parent is obliged to duplicate empathy to their children.
one of the factors that make it difficult to perform empathy for the situation that needs help is the level of stress they experienced. If the condition of stress is very high, then naturally people tend to focus more on himself. This is what often happens to people in big cities today.
This stress can be caused by socio-economic demands, work, family, congestion conditions are getting worse, and the city lifestyle that requires people to always fast-paced and 'up to date' with all the latest information -although sometimes not necessary. Unfortunately, not everyone has a way to manage stress well.
The first thing that needs to be done to foster empathy is to give real-life examples in everyday life of small things. For example if there are relatives who are sick or are in trouble, we should see him and give support. Not necessarily in material form, but simply provide ear and a warm hug to calm her.
Similarly, our attitude towards the environment. When there is a neighbor who suffered, do not hesitate to reach out. Including also if we look at the elderly or people with disabilities who want to cross the street. All the examples of parents' behavior will be ingrained in the child and make him a caring and light hand to others. Of course we also importantly provide a reason why we are doing so.
The second and equally important is to add the ability to manage stress well. When a person's heart angry, sad, or disappointed, it would be difficult to feel the feelings of others. Because at the time was shrouded emotions, we tend to see other people with negative feelings as well. To that end, forget all those emotions in a positive way as a hobby that we love, meditation, or just playing with our pets at home. With a calm and peaceful heart, we can tend to see other people and world peace as well.
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