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Sunday 29 March 2015

ACEH Part 2: BUILD CONFIDENCE

PART 2 BUILD CONFIDENCE Confidence is a human capital base to meet the various needs of its own. Someone have a need for freedom of thought and feeling that someone who has the freedom of thought and feeling will grow into a man with confidence. One of the first and foremost step in building confidence to understand and believe that every human being has its advantages and disadvantages of each. The benefits inherent in a person must be developed and utilized in order to be productive and useful for others (Judge, 2002). Self-confidence (confidence) is the basis of self-motivation to succeed. To be motivated someone to be confident. Someone who get peace and confidence must be willing and motivated him. Many people who experience a shortage but rise above shortcomings that really beat the misfortune to have the confidence and motivation to continue to grow and transform the problem into a challenge. Confidence (Self Confidence) is convincing in ability and judgment (judgment) ourselves in doing the task and choose effective approach. This includes confidence in the ability to face the increasingly challenging environment and confidence in the decision or opinion. While confidence is a induvidu positive attitude that enables him to develop a positive assessment both to themselves and to the environment or situation. This does not mean that induvidu capable and competent to do everything alone. High confidence actually only refers to the presence of some aspects of life induvidu terseburt which he feels has the competence, confident, capable and believes that he can because it is supported by the experience, the actual potential, achievements and realistic expectations of yourself. According Thursan Judge (2002) confidence not just show up in a person there are certain processes in private so there was the formation of self-confidence. The formation of a strong sense of confidence that occurs through the process: a) Establishment of a good personality fit with the process that spawned the development of certain excess surplus. b) Understanding someone to excess surplus assets and give birth to a strong conviction to be able to do everything with the use of excess surplus. c) a person's understanding and positive reaction to the weakness of its weaknesses so as not to cause low self-esteem or sense of difficult to adjust. d) Experience in live the various aspects of life by using all the advantages that exist in him. Self-confidence can be affected by several factors that can be classified into two, namely the internal factors and external factors: a) Internal factors, including: 1. The concept of self. The formation keperayaan yourself in someone begins with the development of self-concept obtained in the association of a group. According centi (1995), self-concept is the idea of ​​himself. Someone who has low self-esteem usually have a negative self-concept, otherwise people who have self-confidence will have a positive self-concept. 2. Self-esteem. Meadow (in Kusuma, 2005) Self-esteem is the assessment carried out for yourself. People who have high self-esteem will personally assess rationally and correctly for himself and easy to make contact with another individual. People who have high self-esteem tend to see themselves as individuals who believe that their business succeed easily accept others as they accept themselves. But people who mempuyai low self esteem is dependent, less confident and usually hit the social difficulties and pessimistic in the association. 3. The physical condition. Changes in physical condition also affects the self-confidence. Anthony (1992) said that physical appearance is a major cause of low self-esteem and self-confident person. Lauster (1997) also found physical disability can lead to low self-esteem that is obvious. 4. The experience of life. Lauster (1997) says that the confidence gained from a disappointing experience is most often the source of the emergence of a sense of inferiority. More over if basically someone has a sense of insecurity, lack of affection and less attention. b) External factors include: 1. Education. Education affects a person's self confidence. Anthony (1992) further revealed that low levels of education tend to make people feel under the authority of a more intelligent, otherwise better educated individuals tend to be self-sufficient and do not need to rely on other individuals. Individuals will be able to meet the needs of life with confidence and strength with regard to the situation from the point of reality. 2. Work. Rogers (in Kusuma, 2005) suggests that the work can develop creativity and self-reliance and self-confidence. Further stated that confidence can appear to do the job, in addition to the material obtained. Satisfaction and pride in the can being able to develop the ability. 3. Environment and life experience. Environment here is a family and community environment. Received good support from family environments as kelurga members interacting with the well will give a sense of comfort and confidence is high. So also with society increasingly able to meet the norms and accepted by the society, the more smoothly the developing self esteem (centi, 1995). While the formation of self-confidence also comes from personal experience that a person experiences in the course of his life. Psychological need fulfillment is an experience that a person experiences during a bad trip on childhood childhood will cause less confident individuals (Drajat, 1995). However, in terms of self-confidence as a nation, a society, the younger generation should have the Aceh besides what has been described above, also must have a clear knowledge of Aceh, a strong and steady conviction about the advantages and disadvantages as well as Aceh potential to be developed as a dignified nation and able to stand in line with other ethnic groups in Indonesia. Therefore, the starting point of this, the past Aceh start of the Empire, the Dutch colonial war period, period Struggle for Independence also formed the basis for foster kebangkan good self confidence, of course with not only pay attention or boast advantages alone but also the weaknesses and errors that occurred at that time as a study in order to be a lesson that will not happen again, or it can be a study to further improve, fix past mistakes in order to be a commendable act in the present and future.

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